The goal is to develop and implement best practices that maintain our progress, guiding us to continuously refine our actions and systems for sustained success in time management and personal growth.
Best practices are systematic actions and thoughts that help us continuously improve by learning from past experiences and adjusting accordingly. By creating and following these practices, we ensure that our progress is consistent, resilient, and adaptable to challenges.
Several key terms are clarified to ensure understanding throughout the book:
Hero’s Journey: A concept describing personal growth through challenges and eventual guidance of others.
Success: Achievement of a defined goal.
Mentor: An experienced guide who helps others achieve their goals.
Best Practices: Rules or guidelines that enhance success and progress.
Generalizations: Broad assumptions that may not apply accurately to all situations.
Motto: A guiding principle that shapes decision-making.
Jake, Chris, and Brandon were talented athletes with different paths. Jake and Chris struggled with distractions, while Brandon, guided by his father’s wisdom, learned to stay calm and thoughtful in difficult situations. A life lesson about the importance of calm reactions shaped Brandon’s future, helping him to make decisions that led to long-term success, while his friends faltered.
Our systems and relationships can either support or hinder our progress. Best practices, built from reflection and experience, help us maintain momentum, keep distractions in check, and ensure we stay true to our goals.
Adopt and develop personal best practices that align with your growth and goals. Regularly evaluate their effectiveness, adjust them when necessary, and create an environment that supports your progress. Maintain simplicity in your check-ins and reflections to ensure continued improvement and resilience.
Reflect on past successes and failures, identify patterns, and distill them into concise best practices. Regularly check in with yourself to refine and adapt these practices to stay aligned with your goals.
"Man's Search for Meaning" by Viktor Frankl
Viktor Frankl is often considered the father of positive psychology and proved the power of resilient thought in his own life. His profound work centers on his experiences in Nazi concentration camps and his psychotherapeutic method that involves identifying a purpose in life to feel positively about, and then consciously imagining that outcome. Frankl's emphasis on the power of personal choice and finding meaning in all of life’s challenges directly supports the use of cognitions to foster resilience and success in how we spend our time in life. His insights are invaluable for anyone seeking to align their thoughts, beliefs, and values with behaviors that truly support their well-being and personal achievements. It is a deep read and one that challenges us to find our own meaningful and value oriented thoughts. This is a person who kept his momentum toward meaning.
"Virus of the Mind: The New Science of the Meme" by Richard Brodie
My last book recommendation is a complex concept on the power of thoughts and how they influence us and our actions. Richard Brodie examines how ideas, or memes, propagate themselves in the human psyche, similar to how viruses spread. This book is important for understanding how our surroundings, the information we consume, and the company we keep can influence our cognitions and behaviors—often subconsciously. Brodie's analysis is important for those looking to critically assess and ensure that their mental environment and social interactions are conducive to their success and resilience, helping them to actively choose influences that align with their core values and life goals. Our work in this chapter also is about developing our own cognitions that make us immune to other social environments and giving us the potential to share positive memes with those who are interested in our support.